We all get older and there is nothing we can do to stop that. I am grateful for the help both my siblings have been able to give to Mom and Dad over the years. Shortly after my father retired we learned that he had Parkinson's. My sister Sue, living and working in the area, was immediately there with suggestions and offering any help that was needed. My brother Greg took early retirement a few years later when Dad's Parkinson's took a turn and it was apparent that my Mom would need more help around the house. They were both around to be of help and, when the time came, to transition my Dad into the Veteran's wing of the local hospital. The family that lived in the city got down to the south shore for visits but it was Mom, Greg and Sue who were there each and everyday to be with Dad before the end.
Now, as my Mom ages, there are issues that crop up every once in awhile. Besides checking in with her almost daily, and making sure she gets out of the house for appointments, groceries or just visits, my brother and sister and on call twenty-four seven for any health emergencies. Gratefully there has been nothing too serious. Still, I am relieved that my Mom has them both so close by. I hope that if I were living in the area, that I too would be "on call" and would be ready to jump into action. A feeling I am sure my other sister and the rest of the family share.
But right now it is Greg and Susan who are stepping in and I just wanted to make sure they knew how much I appreciated it. It's hard to imagine being sick and having no one there to help. I know my Mom is grateful for all their help.
I love you and I thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Sincerely,
your little brother
